Pickup artists
In his 2005 book The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists , Neill Strauss described his experiences with the pickup artist community in Los Angeles. He explained the various techniques they use to pick up women — in particular the Mystery Method , which he apparently used to great success. But do pickup artist playbooks actually work? Neill Strauss says they do, but he had a book to sell. The female perspective A couple of female friends have been on the receiving end of pickup artist attempts, and they described the experience as odd. Normally when a guy tries to chat them up, he plays it by ear. He subconsciously reads her body language, gauges his chances, and cuts his losses if there's no interest. But with pickup artists it was different. It felt as though they were reading from a script — which they probably were — and they didn't pick up on the hints. Because they were executing a playbook rather than relying on their instincts, they didn't pay muc...